ADHD: A Path to Success
Chapter 4 of
first 6 Chapters
The Conditioned
Attentional Avoidance Loop Model
(continued)
They do this much like a baby turning its head away from
something it does not like. Thus, ADHD is not a deficit, defect, or deficiency.
It is a highly skilled, coping mechanism that, at the moment, serves the child.
The thought of doing math makes him angry and depressed,
feelings he would just as soon avoid. Although he dislikes the feelings he
experiences during math class, he cannot physically avoid being in math class
every day. He finds that if he fantasizes about skate boarding, being in math
class does not feel as bad.

PAIN-FREE MATH CLASS
Over time, due to negative reinforcement, he learns to
fantasize sooner, better, and more automatically. He effectively develops
greater protection from the feelings he used to get from math class.
Negative reinforcement is an often-misunderstood concept.
Unlike common usage, it is not equivalent to punishment. It is like lying on the
beach in the sun until you are very hot and uncomfortable, then terminating this
aversive overheating, by getting in the cold water. This temperature change is
experienced as positive change. This positive feeling of cooling off thereby
reinforces dunking in the water when you have become too hot.
Therefore, negative reinforcement is the cessation of
aversive stimuli, which by contrast to the aversion, is experienced as a
positive or reinforcing change.
There are at least two other positive feedback loops that
further exacerbate this process of learned attentional avoidance.
First, the refinement of attentional avoidance further
reduces a child's awareness of, and participation in, schoolwork. The child
eventually begins to slip involuntarily into conditioned attentional avoidance
and, as a result, he spends more and more time in his "own little world."
Second, the teacher is shaped into being more demanding and
coercive through negative reinforcement because of the short-term positive
benefit of such efforts. This short-term success shapes increasing long-term
negativeness in the teacher.
The first process works like this:
As the teacher becomes more determined and insistent that the
child do his work "or else," the experience of being in school becomes more
negative to the child. So any mental escape he manages (and he will escape many
times) is even more negatively reinforcing than it had been previously. That's
because it affords successful escape from an increasingly noxious situation.
Second, this negative reinforcement teaches faster and
stronger attentional avoidance so that, next time, the teacher must be even more
demanding to get the same result.
The escalation of the teacher trying to control the child and
the decreasing functioning of the ADHD child is a regularly observed pattern in
school settings. Yet, the cause and effect relationship between these two sets
of behaviors is not generally understood.
In summary, the ADHD child's decreasing performance elicits
more negative feedback from the teacher. The more negative feedback used by the
teacher to exact (temporary) compliance and improved performance, the more
negative reinforcement the child has for learning more effective
attentional avoidance skills. The child is then in a downward spiral that feeds
on itself.

There is also a more general and damaging level of
conditioning going on with the ADHD child.
With practice, the child learns to detect, earlier and
earlier, links in the chain of events that typically lead to the aversive
situation, such as a math assignment.
By sensing and reading the cues earlier and earlier — in
fact, even before the original problem shows itself — the escape trigger is
pulled sooner and an increasing portion of the child's world is subject to
involuntary, conditioned attentional avoidance. He automatically "checks out" in
a wider variety of situations as time goes on.
Continuing the above example, the child now learns to avoid
not only math but also the math book, math homework sheets, the math teacher who
gives him these materials, and the math classroom.
Bottom line — his avoidance coping mechanism is being
triggered by a multitude of stimuli, which makes him mentally absent more often,
in fact, most of the time, which, in turn, makes his performance deteriorate
further.
Children's Limited View of Time
For all of us, immediate rewards and punishments rule our
behaviors more than distant gratifications and retributions. Therefore, the
arrangement of events in time is critical to development of ADHD.
Take the drinker, for example. At the party last night, the
alcohol relaxed him, made him feel more social, and generally made the evening
more fun. The reinforcers for drinking were significant and immediate.
The next morning, he had a hangover with dry cottonmouth, a
headache, the sensation of cotton candy for brains, and a roiling stomach. The
next morning, he felt miserable. But that was many hours after the behavior of
drinking, so it had little effect on the drinking behavior.
How many people would drink if they got the hangover first,
immediately after drinking, and the next morning they felt great? Not many. Next
morning's good feelings would be so remote that they would be unlikely to
reinforce drinking. But the close proximity of drinking and the hangover would
likely suppress drinking.
When the temporal sequence of the same reinforcers and
punishers is changed, the effect on the behavior they follow also changes. For
young children, this effect is exaggerated, which makes them particularly
vulnerable to certain contingencies.
Young children view time quite differently than adults. At
the developmental stage between the ages of five and nine, when children are
most often developing ADHD, the idea of long-term consequences has little
meaning to them. Next week is as far away as next year. Managing the
aversiveness of experience here and now is all that matters. Thus, the fact that
their attentional avoidance strategies are eventually going to be very costly to
them is meaningless.
Attentional patterns leading to ADHD are likely to begin to
form long before adults in the child's world begin to notice them. Once the
child discovers attentional escape and negative reinforcement they tend to
continue.
These attentionally avoidant patterns work when they are
first learned and continue to work long after they should have been replaced
with more effective strategies. It is difficult for the child to give up
something that has worked so well for so long.
At this developmental stage, children are very responsive to
short-term rewards and thereby more vulnerable to problems like ADHD that are
shaped by an emphasis on short-term contingencies. They are not developmentally
ready to use the thinking patterns, i.e., choices that we attempt to impose on
them.
Avoidance Conditioning: The Horse Grows Bigger
Avoidance conditioning in children is similar to adult phobic
behavior. For example, consider the behavior of the patient who has a horse
phobia. The more successful he is at avoiding horses, the more he feels
compelled to avoid them.
For the phobic person, being thrown off a horse may have
started out as only mildly anxiety producing. As the actual experience gets more
remote because of successful avoidance of horses, the memory of being thrown off
the horse gets progressively worse. The recall experience elicits more and more
fear than the original experience did.
This increased aversiveness of the memory of being around
horses makes it more reinforcing to successfully avoid horses, which in turn
makes being around horses more fearful, and so on so that a vicious circle
develops.
The exact same process unfolds with the regard to the ADHD
child.
What was initially a mildly aversive school situation becomes
successively more disturbing after many opportunities for successful avoidance.
The ADHD child may have started out mildly frustrated or anxious in math class,
but after successfully spacing out in class for a while, the remembered
experience of math class may be worse than the previously experienced reality of
it. It is like being thrown off a horse.
Folk wisdom tells us to climb immediately back on the horse
before fear has a chance to grow. And that folk wisdom is very accurate.
Computer Aided Emotional Restructuring provides an efficient
psychological tool to climb back on the math horse. At first, the CAER ride on
the math horse is emotionally evocative, just like climbing back on a real horse
might be. Children often express anger, fear, anxiety, and depression as they
mentally re-experience their academic phobias.
But CAER makes it much easier to stay in the saddle until the
emotional bucking stops and the scary math beast is tamed and finally becomes
emotionally flat.
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